Here’s my story, I hope it helps you in your pursuit of becoming a highly successful home business owner
…It was around 7pm in the evening, dark already being October in the UK and something wasn’t quite right in our home.
Ava was already asleep (again) so I gave her a kiss on the head, tucked her in her cot, went to my office (the spare bedroom) next door and looked in the mirror.
I didn’t recognize who I saw.
No job, 50k of debt, slowly driving away my wife, 3 weeks from losing our home, lost my business, lost my car and definitely lost my way.
How the hell had this happened, was I really “this” guy?
Just a year earlier I was pulling in £150k+ with my own personal training business. One naïve mistake of trusting the wrong people and it ALL went away.
I could feel the sympathy and confused looks people were now giving me
“Isn’t that the guy that had the gym, thought he was doing really well?”
I could guess the words to match their expression.
I Have The Answer…
But I had a plan (bet you do too)
“This is the one” I’d tell my burnt out wife Rachael.
“The product is better, it’s un-tapped, the comp plan is great and there’s loads of people getting results, just give me a few weeks to turn things around”.
She’d agree (although what choice did she have)
And yet again, I’d dive in to total isolation in my self-made office prison with another new way, company or scheme to get our lives back on track to what I truly felt I was capable of creating.
(Ever get the feeling you’re destined for so much more?)
It’s YOU inc…
What I didn’t know back then (and perhaps you haven’t been taught either) is that people are joining YOU first and your company a very distant second.
WHO & HOW you show them is so much more important than WHAT you show them when talking to people about joining your business.
…“Why on earth are all my friends so stupid? I can’t believe not a single one of them has enough backbone to join me!”
300 Presentations Later…
Just imagine giving 300 presentations (328 to be exact) and getting 300 no’s, I bet you’d get a little frustrated and confused too?
With the pressure keeping me awake at night, I could barely breathe and that was just the tip of the iceberg.
The worst part was the crushing, sinking feeling I felt in my stomach when I looked at Ava & Rachael.
Wasn’t I was supposed to be the solution not the problem?
Wasn’t I was supposed to be the one to provide a life of fun and happiness, not ignoring bank statements, credit cards, watching others take holidays, smiles on their faces…
While I offered nothing more than arguments, stress, broken promises and hitting brick walls.
Ever get the feeling your letting yourself and those you love down by not being successful?
No one, absolutely no one wanted to join me.
Isn’t it painful and embarrassing to realise that the people you think a lot about, don’t think enough about you to say yes, even if just to show support?
Isn’t it confusing to see so many people…rank advancing, getting on stage, raking in the commissions, all the respect and living your dream life by building huge teams?
Meanwhile you can’t get even 10 of your best contacts to say yes and do something about it!
And then you run out of decent people to talk to, well what are you supposed to do now?
I’d been through everyone I knew, they’d all said no.
So now what?
So Now What?
By now aren’t we supposed to have a team who then introduce their people who introduce theirs and so on with you earning more and more as the process unfolds pretty much automatically after your initial contribution?
But if you quit everyone’s going to know…you were wrong, it was a scam, you should have stuck to what you were doing (even though you’re sick of it) and eventually…
…you’d see the same sorry-ass sympathy look I got absolutely sickened at seeing.
It took a simple event one night on a presentation to change everything.
Breakdown Then Breakthrough
I loved my Grandad so much. I hadn’t seen my father for 17 years and being the stellar gentleman that he was, my Grandfather stepped in and treated me like his son. No one had a bad word to say about him, ever.
He was my example of how to be a real man and how to treat people.
When he died it crushed me.
If you’ve ever lost someone close to you, I’m truly sorry for your loss, I know how you feel.
I’ve always been super sensible (some might say boring and they’re probably right) so people often brought me their troubles to deal with.
…but my Grandad was the one person I leaned on for support, everyone else leaned on me.
With him gone I felt every time I looked up and around, it was just me, failing, surrounded my nothing but a black, empty, lonely space.
The Presentation That Changed Everything…
Perhaps you feel the same pressure of expectation too, yet lack the guidance to make it happen? No one knows everything and everyone needs something, right!
Well the day my Grandad died, I got my backside in my borrowed car and drove 40 minutes across our little town in Yorkshire, England to give a presentation…I know I know, what was I thinking?
But how could I say no with the situation we were in when this lady could be the one?
She was well connected, had business success, we’d know each other for years.
Forget the fact I was now well past 300 no’s in a row, surely Karma, the universe, God or whatever would have a little sympathy on this day?
So…I arrived at her home, pulled myself together with a little look in my rear view mirror and a deep breathe…here goes.
Within literally 5 minutes of my typical 30 minute presentation, it was totally not for her and we both fumbled around for the words to politely bring things to a close.
Enough Is Enough…
2 hours of my time, missing my daughters bedtime (again), my wife eating alone at home again, no results, no progress, I’d worn out cd after cd of mind-set training in my car and what did I have…nothing.
(Ever ask yourself if the way you’re trying to do things might not be correct and those with the results aren’t telling you everything?)
The “Freedom” business I was in had reduced me to performing like a dancing monkey for anyone that showed any interest, meanwhile my life, everyone and everything in it slipped away piece by piece.
It was at that exact point, rain pouring onto my windscreen, alone, crying for the loss of my “father” parked up in a lay by at the side of the road that I got pissed off enough to hit back.
Figuring Out Network Marketing Success…
I got completely obsessed to figure this network marketing game out.
Maybe you feel you’re at that point now, do you forget about it and quit, settle for what you have as your permanent situation or is there that little feeling at the back of your mind that says you should adjust and give it all you’ve got?
It’s obvious when you think about it that 95% of what’s being taught (go to your contacts again and again, don’t tell them what it is until you have them there, drop salesy sales scripts to random strangers) only works for the 5% of people with the skills, confidence and most importantly existing quality network to pull it off.
What about “normal” people like me and you that want big results?
We’re treated like a dirty little inconvenient secret that should be swept under the rug, out of sight while the next new batch are inducted.
“Man up…you obviously don’t want it enough…go talk to more people…you’ll find a way or an excuse…do more training…you’re bringing the group/me down so don’t call back until you sort yourself out”
Ever heard anything at all similar?
Upline Tells You To Just Get On With It…
Well if we knew how to sort it out, we’d do just that. Aren’t we supposed to be helped along this journey instead of left at the side of the road and driven away like an abandoned puppy
(I’d never do that, I’m a vegetarian lol)
Back to my obsession.
What EXACTLY had the people who had not come from money or previous success or any other advantage that had built large teams and huge success done?
How were the very top of the industry bringing in such mind-blowing numbers?
I was half wanting to find the solution and half wondering if I’d uncover a kind of conspiracy that they were paid actors or something to promote the company lol
But I needed something to work big and fast and it be something I could do as a relative beginner with zero special skills or experience.
This pursuit of these answers and the subsequent creation of my predictable member system modelled on exactly how the “ordinary” people were creating extraordinary results allowed me to personally sponsor over 500 people, build a 5 figure per month network marketing business, travel the World creating amazing memories with my family and what I love to do most of all nowadays…
Teach my predictable member system to thousands of other network marketers all around the World to create large teams and build the life of their dreams.
Heard It All Before?
Maybe you’ve heard this type of story before,
Maybe you think I’m just trying to sell you something,
Perhaps you want to believe I can help you but are struggling to allow yourself to believe that this time, maybe there is something to this.
But what if…
Your discovery of this site, me and this system…in my opinion is not just a simple coincidence.
Just like my decision to deliver that presentation on the day my Grandfather passed away, it’s been your decision to read my story to the very end and really think about how it applies to you.
Like me that night, by being here, you too have created a fork in the road, can you feel that maybe, just maybe you’re on to something that could be pretty significant?
Will it be continuing as you’ve been going on or will it be an openness to exactly what’s working right now in thousands of network marketers businesses across tons of companies all with the same outcome.
Predictable, fool-proof, results
Your First Step To Results…
So, if you want to learn, I’m willing to teach you.
Because I remember that without certain people helping me along the way I wouldn’t be in this amazing position living the life of my dreams and helping others do the same.
(Quite simply I’d have either quit or lost everything trying without real, honest help…)
Just like when you take a lift (elevator for my US friends) to the top, you send it back down so someone else can use it.
Only an idiot would keep it at the top for themselves (and I’m not an idiot before you say it)
Because I’m sending the knowledge I have back down to you…right now, it’s the least I can do.
I’ll teach you what I uncovered starting after that night in the layby…For Free.
Starting right here, right now IF building a successful network marketing business is something you want to do.
Here’s where I’ll help you, here’s where you start > “How To Build A Huge Team From Scratch With A Predictable Member System”
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